Life with Lively: You Must Obey!

Back in the spring we had an incident involving the teenage girl that lives in our house.  Long story short; she had, basically, decided that all I had done for her in the past two years wasn’t good enough and that she could do her own thing. That my rules weren’t worth respecting, much less obeying.
We find a similar situation in the Garden of Eden. God spent six day creating paradise. Then he put man and woman in it to live in and enjoy. The only rule was “you must not eat from the tree of knowledge of good and evil, for on the day you eat from it, you will certainly die.” (Gen 2:17)
Like a parent laying out the ground rules to a child, God made one specific rule for Adam and Eve to follow. The problem was that, like children so often do, they disobeyed. They sinned.
The problem is we don’t like to recognize disobedience. We try so hard to legalize it, or to make it ok. I could spend hours talking about the types of disobedience, but I’m going to try to lump it into three categories: 1) Blatant Disobedience, 2) Selective Disobedience, and 3) “Justified” Disobedience.
1) Blatant Disobedience
I think the best example of this kind of disobedience is seen in the story of Jonah. We all know the story. God commanded Jonah to go to Nineveh. Jonah proceeded to go in the completely opposite direction. Instead of doing God’s will, Jonah decided to get as far from God as possible. This led to a mess. If Jonah hadn’t suddenly grown a backbone his disobedience would have lead to the deaths of an entire ship’s crew. Jonah was at least man enough to separate himself and not lead others to share in his demise. But in the end God still got to him. Jonah found himself sitting in the belly of a whale. Where he met a talking cricket and a wooden marionette boy –wait, that’s not the story, is it? Jonah came to the realization that Blatant disobedience leads to a really nasty place.
We do this don’t we? We decide that “God don’t know what he’s talking about,” and try to go our own direction, only to find that we are taking ourselves –and sometimes others– to destruction.
2) Selective Disobedience
We all know that David was a man after God’s own heart. He loved God and strived to keep all of His commandments, until, one sleepless night. (2 Samuel 11) David couldn’t sleep and went for a walk on the roof (like we all do when we can’t sleep). Suddenly, God’s chosen King became a simple Peeping Tom. Suddenly David was an avid follower of the 9 commandments. “Surely, God wasn’t serious about that whole ‘Thou shall not covet your neighbor’s wife” thing. Surely 90% obedience is better than no obedience at all right? This lead to adultery (80% obedience), then bearing false witness (70%), murder for a grand total of 60% obedience. If you ask my kids a 60 on an exam is failing. It’s failing on God’s book also. 2 Samuel 12:11-12 says “This is what the LORD says, ‘I am going to bring disaster on you from your own family: I will take your wives and give them to another before your very eyes, and he will sleep with them publicly. 12 You acted in secret, but I will do this before all Israel and in broad daylight.’ ”
God wants complete obedience, not just obedience that allows us to follow as we choose. Choosing to follow God a la carte leads right back to wrong side of God’s courtroom. Do we really want to pin our hopes that God grades us on a curve?
3) “Justified” Disobedience
This is the more common form of disobedience among people. We start to find a reason, or a verse we can take out of context to justify our sins. I’m reminded of a story our church’s youth director likes to tell about one of his students. One Wednesday night, during youth meeting, one of the kids piped up with a statement. “Hey Byron, did you know Jesus says it’s ok to smoke bud?” Byron knew that this student was new to any kind of church environment and so he decided to see where this led. The kid went on to quote Genesis 1:29 (God said, “See, I give you every seed-bearing plant that is upon all the earth, and every tree that has seed-bearing fruit; they shall be yours for food.) So here was a kid who had never been in a church before, quoting the Bible out of context to satisfy his desires.
It’s not a once in a life time occurrence, this type of Disobedience is the oldest in the book. Remember Genesis 2:17? (you must not eat from the tree of knowledge of good and evil, for on the day you eat from it, you will certainly die.) Ok now read how the serpent and Eve started playing with God’s commandment in Genesis 3:1-7: Now the serpent was the most cunning of all the wild animals that the LORD God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You can’t eat from any tree in the garden ‘?”
2 The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat the fruit from the trees in the garden. 3 But about the fruit of the tree in the middle of the garden, God said, ‘You must not eat it or touch it, or you will die. ‘ ”
4 “No! You will not die,” the serpent said to the woman. 5 “In fact, God knows that when you eat it your eyes will be opened and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” 6 Then the woman saw that the tree was good for food and delightful to look at, and that it was desirable for obtaining wisdom. So she took some of its fruit and ate [it]; she also gave [some] to her husband, [who was] with her, and he ate [it]. 7 Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made loincloths for themselves.
Do you see how in verse 1, the serpent misquoted God and introduced doubt. Then in verse 2 Eve misquoted the command, leading to confusion, doubt and eventually the fall of man. It’s so easy to use doubt and misinformation to justify disobeying God.
Disobedience is another word for sin. That is all there is to it. God provided everything Adam and Eve could ever want, and they only had to follow one command. They failed. The next thing they did was go and hide. They knew that they had done something wrong, but they didn’t know what to do next. We are lucky enough to have more information, thanks to Jesus. We know that we are sinners, and we also know that through the grace of Jesus, we are forgiven of our sins. We know that it is our nature to be disobedient and sinful. But it is also nature as followers of Jesus to be more like Him, perfect and sinless; obedient.
So the bad news is we are going to sin, and sin separates us from God. Next time, we are going to see how God works to bridge that gap.