Life with Lively: Staying in a Flock

God is a repetitive designer. When He creates something that works well, he repeats that design in all forms of nature. Take birds and fish for instance. Birds are known for traveling in flocks, fish travel in schools. They gather in groups with similar purpose and travel together while fulfilling their purpose.
God continued that design when he formed the first church. Jesus commanded us in Matthew 18:20 to get together in groups. (For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there among them.) This past week I have been asked to take on the task of building a new Sunday school group at our church. So I’ve spent the last week laying the foundation as to what this class is going to be all about. I have decided that my class is going to focus on connecting with other Christians as we walk God’s path. I want this class to turn into a group of friends who look forward to getting together once a week and celebrating the things that God is doing in their lives. I’ve even decided that the “motto” for our class is going to be 1 John 1:3-4, We saw it, we heard it, and now we’re telling you so you can experience it along with us, this experience of communion with the Father and his Son, Jesus Christ. Our motive for writing is simply this: We want you to enjoy this, too. Your joy will double our joy!
Now, if God is all powerful, why do we need to find a group of friends? What could a group of fellow believers provide that God, the great provider, cannot?
In the book, “Lists To Live By,” (compiled by Alice Gray, Steve Stephens, and John Van Diest) there is an article called “Five Reasons We Need Friends.” This is the simplest way of stating the importance of friends that I have found.

  • 1. Friends Provide Perspective. There are so many times that we get bogged down in a problem that we cannot see the solution to. It sometimes takes some thinking outside the box to see the best way to approach a situation. That is what friend does. A good friend does this without patronizing.
  • 2. Friends Provide Company. God understood early on that we just aren’t wired to be alone. I spend 9 hours a day in a truck by myself, and it’s a good thing I have my cell phone. I can be lost in the monotony of dumping dumpsters and a call from a friend or a funny text message provides variety to my day.
  • 3. Friends Provide a Place to Vent. Sometimes things just set us off. There is not really anything we can do about it. It’s not anything even significant. But a friend is there to hear you unload. Then sometimes they can help you put it in perspective and help you re-focus on what is important.
  • 4. Friends Provide Accountability. Our friends are the ones we let see what is in our closet. I pass people every day who I know nothing about, and they know nothing about me. Sure I may seem like a mild mannered well dressed man, but what am I like at home? I heard a radio psychologist say once that we all need to have a friend who we aren’t ashamed to let them see the moldy cheese we have in our refrigerator. And we allow or friends to be critical of us because we trust them. I know I’d be a lot more comfortable with my best friend telling me my cheese was molded than I would hearing it from the Avon lady. We are more willing to change our ways when a friend tells us.
  • 5. Friends Provide Encouragement. I can be having a really crappy day, and I get a Facebook message, or text from a friend telling me something encouraging and things begin to look up. That’s why we make friends in the first place; we find people who help us feel better about ourselves.

I am a huge NASCAR fan, and those who know me have been waiting for me be bring a NASCAR story into my devotionals, so here it is. Each week the race teams build what they think is the best car for the upcoming race. When they roll it off the truck they are sure that it is the best they can build. Then they get on the track to practice. They run side by side with other cars. Very soon they find out who still has work to do. The pull into the garage and make a few tweaks. Then get back on the track to compare themselves with the other cars. I’ve seen cars that were the worst in the first practice come full circle and win on race day. If they didn’t spend that time comparing their setups with the other racers they would have never known what it would take to win.
The same can be applied to us. Left alone we can convince ourselves that we are the best we can be. But once we get in a small group of friends we can learn where we need to tweak our lives toward serving God more effectively. We allow our strengths to help strengthen others where they are weak, and we allow our weaknesses to be strengthened by our friends. There is no greater truth than that found in ECCLESIASTES 4:9-12: Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their efforts. For if either falls, his companion can lift him up; but pity the one who falls without another to lift him up. Also, if two lie down together, they can keep warm; but how can one person alone keep warm? And if somebody overpowers one person, two can resist him. A cord of three strands is not easily broken.
Do you have a flock to join? If not, find one, we weren’t designed to fly solo.

Brocke Lively is a lifelong Texan from a little town called Olton.
Brocke and his wife, Lela, have 5 kids, 2 dogs, 5 cats, 2 chickens, and what seems like a revolving door of neighbor kids coming over to play. As a father, Brocke recognizes that how he lives his life, and how he worships God not only reflects on his own salvation, but ripples to how his kids worship God.
Brocke attends a small town church where he is known as an on-call substitute Sunday school teacher. He recognizes that his church family is also a large part of who he is, and who he want his kids to grow up to be; God-fearing followers of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Episode 6: Fish & Birds


Eden, Earth – And God said, “Let the water teem with living creatures, and let birds fly above the earth across the expanse of the sky.” So God created the great creatures of the sea and every living and moving thing with which the water teems, according to their kinds, and every winged bird according to its kind. And God saw that it was good. God blessed them and said, “Be fruitful and increase in number and fill the water in the seas, and let the birds increase on the earth.” And there was evening, and there was morning—the fifth day.

Episode 5: Is the sky falling?

Eden, Earth – And God said, “Let there be lights in the expanse of the sky to separate the day from the night, and let them serve as signs to mark seasons and days and years, and let them be lights in the expanse of the sky to give light on the earth.” And it was so. God made two great lights—the greater light to govern the day and the lesser light to govern the night. He also made the stars. God set them in the expanse of the sky to give light on the earth, to govern the day and the night, and to separate light from darkness. And God saw that it was good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the fourth day.

Life with Lively: The Stars at Night are Big and Bright….

Probably my favorite time of the year is around the second week of November. Every year around that time the Earth passes through the path of a comet called Tempel-Tuttle. This results in an annual meteor shower call the Leonids. This is one of the most brilliant displays of cosmic awesomeness with its peak reaching 2000+ meteors an hour. It just so happens that the Leonids are timed to when sky watching conditions are perfect our here in Texas. Usually we have just had our first hard freeze and have had a strong cold front to clear the air, and of course, being out in the middle of nowhere we don’t have to worry about light noise from the cities. You can go out to a field or pasture and just spend hours watching countless meteorites fall from the sky.
Yes, I’m a space nut. I have gotten up at two in the morning and watched the astronauts install a toilet in the space station on the NASA channel. I’ve tried to catch anytime the space shuttle or space station is visible overhead. (Sadly I was up watching overhead the morning Columbia broke up). I even have a space shuttle model hanging over my bed. The point is I like space!! But several years ago I got a dose of reality that I was taking what I had for granted.
Years ago, I was dating a girl from Dallas. It was one of those long distant doomed to fail things, but things progressed to the point that she made the trip across the state to visit. We had dinner at my parents and I was driving her back to town to the local bed and breakfast, when she asked me to pull over. She got out of my truck and started looking up at the sky. I asked if something was wrong and she pointed upwards and said, “I’ve never seen so many stars. Are there always this many out at night?” I was confused, “Of course there are, don’t they have stars in Dallas?” She said that in Dallas you were lucky if you could see a dozen or so stars because the city lights blocked them out.
As I’ve matured I’ve always had in the back of my mind that there are a lot of stars out there, even if I’m somewhere I can’t see them all, they are still there, serving God’s purpose. This has been a reminder the past few weeks at our church. We just recently finished VBS. Our church takes VBS very seriously. Our community has a lot of families who won’t come to church but will send their kids. Our church has taken children and youth ministry and its calling and we give 110% focus to things like VBS. Most of the kids get to know their teacher, their craft leader, the music leader and the preacher, but VBS would not happen without a lot of those little stars that no one can see, unless you look for them.
The same goes with Bible News Network, sure each week we see Raymond O’Neil, Brad Bartelloni and Tad Shultz, but what about the people behind the camera? There are lots of people behind back there making things happen. Do you realize how much makeup it takes to make Tad Shultz presentable? Who do you think brings Brad Bartelloni his Carl’s Jr “Big Bacon Classic”?
All kidding aside, God’s work is done by lots of people. Some get more attention than others, but every part is important. We are all a part of one body each with its function. If my knee isn’t working right the rest of my body will begin to suffer. I can’t get on this subject without talking about my mom. She suffered from kidney failure. She spent 7 years on dialysis because her kidneys stopped doing their part. But she didn’t pass away from kidney failure. She died of a heart attack. Her heart gave out because her kidneys weren’t doing their part to filter her blood. The poisons in her body weakened her heart to the point of failure.
There are times when we feel our part in God’s body is small and insignificant. We start thinking “oh well, no one will notice if I don’t do my part.” That’s when the chain starts to weaken. That’s when the momentum starts to slow. I’m a substitute Sunday school teacher; doesn’t seem that important. But what if there was no one to step in and take a class when a teacher went out of town, or had an emergency. The dominos would begin to fall.
The fact is this: Just like there are countless stars in the sky of varying brightness, there are countless places to serve God’s plan. Not all are glamorous. There is no guarantee of fame (not really the point of service anyway). But once you find that place where God wants you to serve, be ready because you will shine. Remember, each and every star in the sky, no matter how bright they seem to us; they are a sun with their own set of planetary bodies revolving around them. So shine on baby!!
This week’s passage is Romans 12:1-21 (The Message): So here’s what I want you to do, with God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, and develops well-formed maturity in you.
I’m speaking to you out of deep gratitude for all that God has given me, and especially as I have responsibilities in relation to you. Living then, as every one of you does, in pure grace, it’s important that you not misinterpret yourselves as people who are bringing this goodness to God. No, God brings it all to you. The only accurate way to understand ourselves is by what God is and by what he does for us, not by what we are and what we do for him.
In this way we are like the various parts of a human body. Each part gets its meaning from the body as a whole, not the other way around. The body we’re talking about is Christ’s body of chosen people. Each of us finds our meaning and function as a part of his body. But as a chopped-off finger or cut-off toe we wouldn’t amount to much, would we? So since we find ourselves fashioned into all these excellently formed and marvelously functioning parts in Christ’s body, let’s just go ahead and be what we were made to be, without enviously or pridefully comparing ourselves with each other, or trying to be something we aren’t.
If you preach, just preach God’s Message, nothing else; if you help, just help, don’t take over; if you teach, stick to your teaching; if you give encouraging guidance, be careful that you don’t get bossy; if you’re put in charge, don’t manipulate; if you’re called to give aid to people in distress, keep your eyes open and be quick to respond; if you work with the disadvantaged, don’t let yourself get irritated with them or depressed by them. Keep a smile on your face.
Love from the center of who you are; don’t fake it. Run for dear life from evil; hold on for dear life to good. Be good friends who love deeply; practice playing second fiddle.
Don’t burn out; keep yourselves fueled and aflame. Be alert servants of the Master, cheerfully expectant. Don’t quit in hard times; pray all the harder. Help needy Christians; be inventive in hospitality.
Bless your enemies; no cursing under your breath. Laugh with your happy friends when they’re happy; share tears when they’re down. Get along with each other; don’t be stuck-up. Make friends with nobodies; don’t be the great somebody.
Don’t hit back; discover beauty in everyone. If you’ve got it in you, get along with everybody. Don’t insist on getting even; that’s not for you to do. ‘I’ll do the judging,’ says God. ‘I’ll take care of it.'”
Our Scriptures tell us that if you see your enemy hungry, go buy that person lunch, or if he’s thirsty, get him a drink. Your generosity will surprise him with goodness. Don’t let evil get the best of you; get the best of evil by doing good.

Brocke Lively is a lifelong Texan from a little town called Olton.
Brocke and his wife, Lela, have 5 kids, 2 dogs, 5 cats, 2 chickens, and what seems like a revolving door of neighbor kids coming over to play. As a father, Brocke recognizes that how he lives his life, and how he worships God not only reflects on his own salvation, but ripples to how his kids worship God.
Brocke attends a small town church where he is known as an on-call substitute Sunday school teacher. He recognizes that his church family is also a large part of who he is, and who he want his kids to grow up to be; God-fearing followers of our Lord Jesus Christ.